No spreadsheets. No paper RSVPs. No chasing.

Every guest, every RSVP
in one place

A beautiful, personalised website for your wedding, birthday, christening or party — invitations, RSVPs, menu choices, dietary needs, gifts and guest messages, all from one simple admin panel.

Free to set up · No card needed · Activate for £49.99 when ready

Mobile-first design Unlimited guests 14-day money-back after activation No app to download No monthly fees
For every occasion

Whatever you're celebrating

Pick your event when you sign up. The wording, starting events and features change to suit it.

Wedding or civil partnership Engagement party Vow renewal Anniversary Birthday Graduation Retirement party Christening or naming day First Holy Communion or Confirmation Bar or Bat Mitzvah Baby shower Family or school reunion Hen or stag do Any other party Work or corporate event Leaving or farewell party Charity, gala or fundraiser dinner Funerals & memorials

Planning a funeral or memorial?

Funerals and memorials are looked after by our sister site, mymemorial.day, built for those moments with the care they deserve.

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See it in action

A quick look inside

From your admin to your guests' phones — everything works together, beautifully.

yourname.everygathering.com/admin — RSVPs
EveryGathering
RSVPsGuestsTablesMenusExport
64Invited
48Attending
6Declined
10Pending
GuestStatusMenuDietary
Alice SmithyesLamb—
Uncle BobyesSalmonGluten-free
Cousin Jakepending——
EveryGathering
RSVPsGuestsTablesMenusExport
Unseated
Dave Wilson
Emma Clark
Top Table
Sarah
Tom
Mum
Dad
Uni Friends
Alice Lee's
Bob Zoe's
Carol
Sarah & Tom
Please find your seat
— ✦ —
Top Table
Sarah
Tom
Mum & Dad
Family
Uncle Bob
Aunt Sue
Gran
Uni Friends
Alice
Bob
Carol
EveryGathering
RSVPsGuestsTablesMenusSettings
Pick your theme
Sage
Blush
Navy
Terracotta
Midnight
Ivory
You're invited
Hello Smiths
142 days to go
Reception
Yes! No
Your guests see this

A personalised hub on their phone. RSVP, pick a meal, find the venue, message you — all with their thumb.

Live RSVP dashboard — see who's coming in real time Drag-and-drop table planner with colour-coded groups Print-ready A2 seating chart — take it to the print shop 15 themes — one click changes everything Beautiful on every phone — no app needed
Mobile-first

Your guests are on their phones

Most of your guests will RSVP from their phone. Every screen — from the invitation email to the table plan — is designed for thumbs, not mice.

No app to download

Works in any browser — Safari, Chrome, whatever. Guests just tap the link and they're in.

Share invites via WhatsApp

Send invitations by email or WhatsApp — one tap, pre-written message, PIN included. Your guests' preferred channel.

Touch-friendly everything

Big tap targets, swipeable menus, no pinch-zooming. RSVP, pick a meal, message the hosts — all with a thumb.

You're invited
Hello Smith Family
Mia is turning 6!
142 days to go
RSVP Venue Menu
Mia's party
Yes, I'll be there Can't make it
Everything you need

One place for all the planning

Built for hosts who want to spend less time managing logistics and more time looking forward to the event.

Personal invites

Every guest party gets a unique link with their own access PIN. Personalised greeting, only the events they're invited to, all in one place.

Real-time RSVPs

Watch your guest list update as guests respond. See who's coming, who's pending, and who's declined — all in a live dashboard.

Menu choices

Set up adult and children's menus. Guests pick when they RSVP. Kitchen-ready report exported in one click.

Dietary & allergy tracking

Severe allergies flagged in red. Vegans, vegetarians, gluten-free — all collected automatically and exportable for your venue.

Table planner

Drag guests into tables with colour-coded relationship groups. See dietary needs and allergies while you plan. Capacity warnings if you overfill. Mobile-friendly dropdown fallback.

Print-ready seating chart

One click generates a beautiful A2 seating chart in portrait or landscape — themed to your colours, ready for the print shop. Foam board, canvas, or poster. No Etsy designer needed.

Guest photo wall

After the event, guests upload their best 5 photos. Everyone sees the gallery. You moderate. Auto-resized, captioned, attributed — a shared memory of the event without a WhatsApp group of 200 blurry shots.

Private messaging

Guests can ask questions privately. You can broadcast updates to everyone, or just the people who haven't RSVP'd yet.

Gifts & cash funds

Link to a gift list, collect cash towards a honeymoon or a big present, or simply say no gifts please. Discreet, easy, and totally optional.

Plus-ones & kids

Allow specific guests to bring a +1. Mark guests as adult, child or infant. Kids see the kids menu, infants don't need a meal at all.

Catering exports

Generate a venue-ready PDF or CSV with all your menu counts, dietaries and allergy alerts. Send it to your caterer and you're done.

Accommodation & FAQ

List recommended hotels, parking info, dress code, the lot. Everything your guests might ask, all in one place they can come back to.

Guided setup wizard

No blank screen panic. A step-by-step setup asks a few questions about your event, switches on only what you need, then walks you through the venue, theme and first event in under 5 minutes. Skip what you don't need, come back to the rest later.

15 themes

Pick a look that's you

Elegant palettes for weddings, bright and playful ones for parties. One click changes everything — your hub, your emails, your seating chart. Switch any time.

👆 Tap a theme to try it on this page

How it works

From signup to the big event in 4 steps

1

Pick your name

Pick your unique address — like sarahandtom.everygathering.com or mias6th.everygathering.com. Sign up with just your email, no card needed. Your admin is ready in under a minute.

2

Set up your event

Add your events, menus, where to stay and FAQs. All editable from your phone or laptop.

3

Invite your guests

Add guests, group them into parties with one designated leader, and click "Send all invites". Done.

4

Sit back and relax

Watch RSVPs land in your dashboard. Send updates. Export menu choices for your caterer when you're ready.

Simple pricing

One simple price

No hidden fees. No upgrade tiers. No nonsense. One price, everything included.

Just one price
£49.99

One-off payment. Includes everything until your event + 6 months.

  • Free yourname.everygathering.com address
  • Unlimited guests & events
  • Invitations by email or WhatsApp
  • Save the Date emails & QR codes
  • Real-time RSVP dashboard
  • Plus-ones, kids menus & allergy alerts
  • Menu, dietary & catering exports (PDF/CSV)
  • Private guest messaging & broadcasts
  • Drag-and-drop table planner with colour coding
  • Print-ready A2 seating chart in your theme
  • Shared guest photo wall with moderation
  • Gift lists & cash funds
  • Venue map with guest directions
  • 15 themes & guided setup
  • Email support from a real person (me)
Start your hub — free →
14-day cooling-off period Activated and changed your mind? No hard feelings — email us within 14 days of activation and we'll refund your £49.99 in full, no questions asked.

Free to start · Activate via Stripe whenever you're ready

Questions? lee@leejamesapps.co.uk

The maths

What it actually costs to do it yourself

Paper invites, chasing RSVPs, spreadsheets, seating charts, printing — it adds up fast. Here's what it typically costs the old way for an 80-guest wedding. Smaller parties cost less, but the chasing doesn't get any easier.

The DIY way

Paper invites (80 guests) £120–300
Postage (stamps + envelopes) £70–100
Save the Date cards £40–80
Seating chart (Etsy / print shop) £50–150
Menu cards / place settings £40–100
Hours chasing RSVPs by text priceless 😤
Typical total £320–730+

Plus 10–15 hours of your time addressing, posting, chasing, tallying menu choices in a spreadsheet, and panicking the week before.

Show me a better way →

With Every Gathering

Digital invites (unlimited guests) included
Email + WhatsApp delivery included
Save the Date emails included
Print-ready A2 seating chart included
Menu choices + catering exports included
Auto RSVP tracking (no chasing) included
Total £49.99

Build your hub free. Pay £49.99 once when you're ready to send invites. Live until 6 months after your event.

Start your hub — free →
How we compare

Us and the alternatives

There are good options out there, some of them free. Here's an honest look at how they work, so you can pick what suits you.

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Every Gathering Gather Free wedding websitesZola, Joy, Hitched, Bridebook Pay-per-guest e-invitesPaperless Post Event RSVP softwareRSVPify
What you pay £49.99 once, unlimited guests, free to set up £99 once, unlimited guests, up to 36 months' access, free to set up Free, with paid extras (for example custom domains on Joy) Coins for every guest you send to (around £1.20 a guest on the design we priced), or a yearly subscription Free up to 100 guests; paid plans from $24 a month (billed yearly)
Built for Weddings and 16 other events, from christenings and children's parties to retirements and work dos Mainly weddings Weddings Any event Any event, including business and ticketed events
How they make money Your one-off fee. No ads, no upselling Your activation fee Gift-list sales, stationery and wedding supplier listings Coins and subscriptions Monthly or yearly subscriptions
Menu choices & allergies Built in, with severe allergies flagged separately and a kitchen-ready export Built in Varies by site Through optional guest surveys (a paid Plus feature) Through custom questions
Children's parties Parents reply for their child, with a contact number and drop-off and pick-up times — — — —

Closest like-for-like? Gather, a lovely UK wedding RSVP service, is £99. We're £49.99 and cover every kind of event.

Planning a wedding on a tight budget? The free wedding websites are genuinely good. They're free because they earn from gift lists, stationery and suppliers. We charge once, show no ads, and work just as well for a 6th birthday or a retirement do.

Checked on each company's own website on 29 October 2026. Prices and features change, so please check with them before you choose. A dash means we couldn't find that feature. Spotted something out of date? Email lee@leejamesapps.co.uk and we'll fix it.

Free advice

Event planning tips

Things we've learned from helping people plan weddings and parties. Useful whether you use our platform or not.

Send Save the Dates early →

For a wedding, send Save the Dates 6–8 months out and invitations 8–12 weeks before. For a big birthday or party, 2–3 months' notice is kind. An early heads-up gives guests time to book travel and time off, especially for summer weekends, which fill up fast.

Collect menu choices with the RSVP

Don't chase menu choices separately — it doubles your admin. Ask guests to pick their meal at the same time they RSVP. One form, one answer, one less thing to worry about. Your caterer will thank you.

Ask about severe allergies explicitly →

A generic "any dietary requirements?" field catches vegetarians but misses life-threatening allergies. Give guests a separate checkbox to flag severe allergies — the chef needs to know the difference between "I prefer no dairy" and "I will go into anaphylaxis".

Set an RSVP deadline — then nudge →

Give guests a clear deadline (6–8 weeks before a wedding, 1–2 weeks before a party). Then send a friendly nudge to anyone who hasn't replied a week before it passes. Most people aren't being rude — they just forgot, and a gentle reminder usually does the trick.

One invitation per household, not per person

The Smiths don't need four separate invites. Send one to the household "leader" (usually a parent or one half of a couple) and let them RSVP for everyone. Less email spam, less confusion, less work for you.

It's OK to not mention gifts

Feeling awkward about a gift list? You're not alone. "No gifts please, just come and celebrate" is a perfectly valid stance. If you do want to mention gifts, a short warm message beats a blunt registry link. Keep it human.

Read all 14 planning guides →

Common questions

Got questions?

How fast can I get started?
Straight away. Sign up with your email, confirm the link we send you, and your admin is ready in under a minute. Build your whole hub for free — you only pay (£49.99, one-off) when you're ready to send invites and go live for your guests.
How do guests RSVP?
Each "party" (typically a household or couple) has one designated leader. You add the leader's email when you set up the party, then click "Send invites". They get an email with their own 4-digit PIN and a link to your hub. They log in once, RSVP for everyone in their party, and they're remembered for next time.
What if my guests have plus ones or kids?
All sorted. You can mark individual guests as "adult", "child" or "infant", and tick which ones are allowed to bring a plus one. Kids see the kids menu (if you have one). Infants don't need a meal. Plus-ones get added by the leader at RSVP time.
Can I send the menu choices to my caterer?
Yes — there's a one-click export tab in your admin that generates a beautiful PDF report (with kitchen sheet, severe allergy alerts, and per-guest summary) plus a CSV for spreadsheets. Email it straight to your venue.
What if someone forgets their PIN?
There's a "Forgot PIN" link on the login page. Guests enter their email and a new PIN is sent automatically — same as resetting any password. No support tickets, no chasing.
Is there really no monthly fee?
Nope. Free to build. £49.99 once when you activate. Never any monthly fees. Your hub stays live until 6 months after your event, so guests can revisit during the build-up and you can collect messages, photos and gift contributions for a while afterwards.
Can I use my own domain instead?
Your hub lives at yourname.everygathering.com — it's clean, short, and included in the price. If you've already bought a custom domain and really want to use it, we can set that up for a small additional fee after you've purchased your hub. Drop us an email at lee@leejamesapps.co.uk to discuss.
Can I use it to plan my table seating?
Yes — there's a built-in drag-and-drop table planner. Create your tables, drag guests in, and see dietary needs and allergy flags while you plan. Guests are colour-coded by relationship group (family, work friends, uni mates, etc) so you can seat a whole group in seconds. When you're done, generate a beautiful print-ready A2 seating chart — portrait or landscape — themed to your colours. Take the PDF to any print shop for foam board, canvas, or poster printing. No Etsy designer needed.
What happens after the event?
Your hub switches to after-the-event mode — the RSVP form and planning tools are hidden, and a photo wall appears where guests can upload and share their favourite moments from the event. You moderate the gallery from your admin, and can email every guest with one click to invite them to upload. The hub stays live for 6 months after your event, and you can download all your data as CSV or PDF whenever you want.
Is it just for weddings?
Not at all. When you sign up you pick what you're celebrating — weddings, engagements, birthdays (including children's parties, where parents RSVP for their child), christenings, retirements, reunions, work events and more. The wording, starting events and features adapt to your event, and you can switch anything on or off later.
Who built this?
Built by Lee James, a UK developer who builds tools for small businesses and individuals. Real human. Email replies, no chatbot, no call centre.
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